Mindfulness 101
WHAT: In any mindfulness practice, there is an OBJECT OF FOCUS (a specific sensory experience or an aspect of the sensory experience) that you want to focus on. In some cases, there are multiple sensory experiences or a category of sensory experiences that you want to focus on. In this case, we would use the word FOCUS RANGE to define all the sensory experiences that you may focus on. If you have done breath meditation, in this practice the sensations of the breath are the sensory experiences that you want to focus on. The breath is the object of focus. Anything else would be a distraction. For instance, if your mind starts wandering during breath meditation, it is a distraction. In that case, without any judgment, you would let the distraction be in the background of your awareness and put the spotlight of your attention back onto the sensory experience you decided to focus on (the breath, for instance).
HOW: There are many ways to practice mindfulness. A great way for newcomers and even for experienced practitioner involves these four steps:
1) Noticing
Noticing means acknowledging the sensory experience that draws your attention. For example, you may notice that you see a door.
2) Labelling
Labelling implies saying a neutral and simple word to yourself to support the act of noticing. In the door example, the label could be "SEE." The word "SEE" is an excellent example as it doesn't describe much of what you see. Hence, it prevents the mind from being triggered and being caught in a mental process of defining, comparing, and analyzing. Labelling "SEE" reinforces the fact that your attention noticed something visual.
3) Soaking
For a brief instant — 1 to 5 seconds — you soak your awareness into what you noticed in step one. You focus, discover, and open up to the sensory experience you noticed. In the above example, that would be soaking into the visual experience of the door. During this step, you become curious and explore the details of the sensory experience for a brief instant. When you soak into it, you can actively focus on what you noticed, or you can let your attention be passively drawn to what you noticed.
4) Repeating
After step three, release and allow your attention to notice a new or the same sensory experience. You label it and you soak into it for a few seconds. In our door example, your attention could land on the wall next to the door or remain on the door. You would label that new experience "SEE" and discover that experience for a few seconds and repeat the cycle of noticing, labelling, and soaking over and over.
SKILLS TRAINING: You can develop mindfulness like any other capacity in life. Just as we can go to the gym to train our muscles to get more endurance, strength, and flexibility, we can train our awareness to become more mindful. Mindfulness exercises aim to develop the awareness to become mindful.